1. Begin by holding a Nibble in your fist. Some (super smart!) cats will lift their paw to your hand almost straight away to investigate, which can then be rewarded with the high five command, or a clicker, and the reward.
Gorbi was not on that particular genius wavelength and I couldn’t hold out for long because it felt as if I was teasing him. We settled on giving the command and the reward as soon as he lifted his paw off the ground at all. That was all we practised on day one – hiding a Nibble, waiting for a minor paw lift and then rewarding immediately.
*I did commit to both of us using the same hand and paw every time, and I would recommend doing this as it provides continuity, and also means that later on if I wanted to approach and just stroke him, I could use the other hand and it wouldn’t be confused with a signal.
*Paw lifting is easier if your cat is already sitting down.
2. Once your cat has figured out that a Nibble in your hand requires a paw lift, you can gradually start withholding the Nibble until the paw lifts higher and eventually touches your hand. I found this phase quite hard because I felt pretty mean raising my standards for the Nibble, and I could see Gorbi was trying really hard to figure it out! He did click quite quickly though, fortunately, and by the third day had mastered touching my hand.
*Try to avoid talking all the time, just give the command as your cat performs the required action and then give lots of praise with the reward.
3. Once you are at the stage of the paw touching your hand for a Nibble, you can swap the Nibble to your other hand and open your fist to get a proper high five. If you have stuck to only using one particular hand then your cat should adjust quite quickly to still touching that hand when it isn’t holding a Nibble.
*It may help to keep your hand directly in front of your cat until they get the idea (basically, start with a low five until ready to graduate to a high five!)
4. At this point you can start giving the verbal cue before the action and the association should be strong enough for it to function as a command. I think for most cats the physical action of putting a hand up will still be a much stronger signal than the verbal command, and that’s okay!
5. If you’ve got this far you have mastered the high five! Congratulations!
*At this stage Gorbi started to behave as if he’d written the manual on high fiving and in his enthusiasm would do it really fast so that at times it was more of a swipe than a high five! I just did not reward this behaviour and he settled down.
*The most heart-breaking part of the whole process for me was that after learning this trick Gorbi started to initiate the high five with me. I chose to rather cuddle him than high five in response because A. I didn’t have a Nibble handy to reward the behaviour, which may have confused the process, and B. I wasn’t sure that Gorbi should be training me! But until you’ve left a cat hanging in a high five, I’m not sure you can really imagine how it feels (devastating!). That decision is up to you - but consider yourself warned!
Best of luck to everyone who partakes in the challenge! It’s difficult to predict how open an individual cat will be to learning to high five, but we are pretty sure everyone will have a good time trying! Keep an eye out on Instagram for the hashtag #KatKinNibblesHigh5 – we’ll see you there!